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How to find happiness by yourself?

Don’t Worry, Be Happy.  Don’t we all want to do that?                                                                                  A reasonable life can be achieved by anyone.           An OK life.  An okay job.  OK relationships.  Anyone can have these.

If you want a great life, you must commit to leading a great life.

To do things that the majority do not do.

Commit to thinking like the minority not like the majority.

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Here are 7 principles to live by.

for an abundant happy & successful life.

#1 Number 1:

The first principle to live by is that one day you will be gone.  It may be in 50 years, it may be in 50 weeks, it may be next week or even today.

I don’t know, you don’t know, nobody knows.

And rather than live in fear of this we should embrace the fact that this life is short.

Short and unpredictable.  Knowing this we must live fully today.

It is not a recipe for recklessness, rather a recipe to give your all today.

To give your very best today.  In everything you do.

To give you the greatest energy to this day.

To your family, to everyone you encounter today.

It is a reminder for you to leave your best self in each moment.

What if they couldn’t speak to you tomorrow?  What if you were gone tomorrow?

What would they speak of you?  What can you do that will leave a lasting positive memory in the lives of everyone you come into contact with?

It is about being light-hearted, knowing that in the end none of this stuff matters.

The only thing that ever matters is how you made others feel and how you felt in your own heart.

It is about knowing that things can never go with you in the end.  The spirit lives on, but the things, they die with your physical body.

Remembering that we are going to die is one of the best reminders that we can use.  It keeps us focused on what is important and what is real.

#2 Number 2:

There is nothing you cannot be, do or have.  If there has been someone, even one person on this planet that has done something that you want to, that means, you can too.

It does not mean it will be easy.  But it does mean it is possible.

And as long as it is possible you can work towards it.  You can make a plan.  Learn what needs to be done for you to live your craziest abundant life.

A life most would consider impossible.  But you know impossible broken-down states:

I am Possible.

You know that impossible broken down is simply making a plan and being willing to work for that plan. 

#3 Number 3:

Nothing is worth it if it doesn’t make you happy. 

If it doesn’t

  • Make you happy.
  • Make you better.

Don’t make time for it.

Now, before you jump on this.  Let me clarify.  Nothing is worth it; nothing is worth it if it doesn’t make you happy.  That means if it doesn’t make you happy now, while you are doing it.  Or if it isn’t going to make you happy as a result of doing it, it most likely is not worth it. 

Just about everything worth fighting for is going to require a real fight to win a great price.

You will have to suffer and sacrifice in life for almost anything worthwhile, but you should ask yourself this question about everything you do in your life:

Does this make me happy?

If the answer is no.  Ask yourself:

Will this sacrifice I am making lead to more happiness in the long term?

If not, you should let it go.

#4 Number 4:

Be yourself.  Always.   No exceptions.

It is such a tragedy to see so many people on this planet, living lives they don’t want to live.  Just because they listened to other people that did the same.  The only way you can live happy in this life, the only way you can be successful is if you be you.

This is perhaps the most important thing you can apply to your life.  You will never be happy if you are constantly doing things to please others, to compete against others, or to be like another.

You are unique and that is your greatest gift.  When you follow your path, regardless if that fits in with others, you open up space for great things to enter your life. 

Compare yourself to no one.

Compete with no other.

Make your own decisions.

And it will lead to your greatest life.

#5 Number 5:

Everything you need is already within you.  In this world, we see endless examples of people who seemingly have it all, materialistic speaking.  But they are empty inside.

Things and other people will never complete you.  There is this saying. 

Needing nothing attracts everything.

When you come from a place of needing or seeking nothing outside yourself to make you happy, you open up space for more amazing things to enter your life.

And if things don’t come, that’s fine.  – (you don’t need them)

Real happiness is not found outside of us.  It is not found in possessions or wealth. 

Happiness is always found within us.

It is a state of mind.

Never forget this:

Happiness is the highest level of success!

#6 Number 6:

There is no room for toxic people, but there is never-ending space for positive energy and positive people.  Surrounding yourself with energy killers is one of the worst things you can do if you want to live a happy, successful life. 

Unfortunately, not everyone, including family and friends will not share the same positive energy that you have.  Some will take a while.  Some might never get there.  Let them run their race.  While you focus on living your happiness.

Those who are truly aligned with you will never hold you back from living the life that you want to live.  Don’t even dim your light to fit in with others.  Shine Bright!

Those who see your spark will shine with you.

Remember you can not live a great or happy life if you surround yourself with toxic people.

#7 Number 7:

Whatever you focus on, you will find.

If you search for negativity in this world, you will find plenty of it.

If you search for hate, anger, violence, and sadness you will find it.

But the same is true on the flip side.

If your only intention is to search for the good, you will find only the good.

Whatever meaning you give your life, becomes your life.

It can be a failure or a lesson.

Heartbreak or character building.

Life is either against you or makes you stronger.

Because there is no such thing as reality.

We choose our reality by the meaning we give each moment in our lives.

Make it your intention to look for the good in your life.

To notice the good in others.

To be grateful for what you do have.

To see challenges as opportunities to show your true character.

Remember:

What you give your attention to, will become your experience in life.

Practice seeing the good in your life, and others.

Think about the best.

Expect the best.

Be the best.

And always ask yourself:

How can this benefit my life?

Leave who you were.

Love who you are.

And most of all look forward to who you will become.

Here is a program that will help you to change your life.

Tips on how to boost your happiness.

Increase your level of happiness and you will be healthier as well as wealthier, and you will have an overall sense of peacefulness because everything you do, say and think is a choice YOU make!

Participate in activities you enjoy and remember the things one enjoys brings true happiness.

Make your home your favourite space and you’ll be happy the minute you walk through the door.

Enjoy your success as well as that of your co-workers and remember to celebrate your achievements and share the joy.

Stop focusing on details, don’t worry if somebody made a nasty comment or a funny look was given to you, take a positive approach to life and live the happiest life possible.

Give, be a volunteer, this will make you feel happy, the minute you help someone you will feel fulfilled.   Buy a gift, no matter how small it’s the thought that counts.

Don’t be afraid to partake in new adventures and try new things.  Get out of your comfort zone this tends to make you very happy.  Be curious, alive and discover new joys.

When you experience negative feelings be fair and flexible as these feelings will help you to adjust to difficult and tough situations.

By boosting your happiness, you will enrich your life and be able to enjoy more success and have better mental and physical health. 

So, start taking action now and be a happier, loveable and peaceful person.

You can implement everything here consciously, but you can also create your own happiness with this simple yet very effective program.

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